So how did I get roped into this? As a naive vanilla-girl, I was invited by a friend and ended up knee-deep in a terrifying underground excursion.... A corset and nine-inch-heels later, I found myself standing in a room full of creepy silent spectators as women were stripped naked and whipped and beaten by their "Doms" -- for mutual pleasure!
By the end of the night, this is what I walked away with:
2) The vampire trend suddenly makes sense. We are raising a generation of BDSM freaks and we don't even know it! Let's not forget that Stephanie Meyer herself admitted to finding inspiration for Twilight from a freaky dream, in which a hot guy said "I love you... but I want to kill you." (!!!) Mysterious, abusive men obsessed with "biting" women, and women who are turned on by it? Oh god, Twilight, what have you done?
3) Men are gross. But we already knew that.
4) Metal chokers are not just a fashion statement! Ever wondered if your coworker or neighbor is into BDSM? Saw them packing a bag of whips, chains, and leather wrist restrains into their car? Your daughter seems to be spending a lot of time going out at night with creepy friends? A lot of "subs" will wear metal chokers or other small tokens to remind them of their "double life." Now you know!
5) People do the darndest things! And right when you thought you'd seen it all, someone pulls out a paddle and starts beating you for fun. What is wrong with people? How does an abusive relationship become something kinky and fun? Why is it that while standing in the club, I felt the acute sense that I was surrounded by normal, everyday people who just wanted to partake in a bit of pain? I will never condone the lifestyle now that I've seen it, but really... aren't we all such strange creatures?
wow you definitely had an interesting night and after this i will never view Twilight in the same way. hugs
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It's not all like that. There are women who enjoy being in charge. It's much more fun that way. In many cases men involved in BDSM are not really interested in the person they are with. Women need to be careful. But, we know, that's nothing new.
ReplyDeleteAppears to me you learned nothing other than to sneer at others, try opening that closed little mind occasionally
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ReplyDeleteWell, both genders are. That's the ultimate truth about humanity.
That's very close-minded! As a submissive, you have more strength and will power. To give up control willingly and enthusiastically takes enormous strength. AND... everything is consensual based on the subs needs.
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